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Practical resources for the people who support others

Find tools for difficult conversations, activities to use with young people, and books and videos to explore with your team. Start with a practical tool below, or browse a topic that connects with the work you’re doing.

Recommended Reading

What Happened to You?

Through conversations about trauma, resilience, and healing, Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perry invite us to become more curious about the experiences behind behavior. I recommend this as an accessible starting point for parents, educators, and teams. The audiobook is a particularly engaging way to experience their conversations.

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk explores how trauma affects the brain, body, and relationships, alongside approaches to recovery. I recommend this for clinicians and helping professionals who want a deeper understanding of trauma and why its effects can continue after the immediate danger has passed.

The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog

Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz use stories from clinical practice to explore how early experiences shape development. This is a valuable read for educators, clinicians, and anyone working with young people who wants to understand behavior in context and appreciate the role of relationships in healing.

My Grandmother’s Hands

Resmaa Menakem examines racialized trauma through the experiences of our bodies and communities. I recommend reading slowly and making time for the exercises. This is especially useful for people exploring how personal healing, racial identity, and the work of building more equitable communities connect.

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle

Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski explain how stress works and offer practical approaches to recovery. Written with women’s experiences in mind, this book is a useful starting point for caregivers, helping professionals, and teams looking to understand exhaustion and make more room for well-being.

Say What You Mean

Oren Jay Sofer combines mindfulness and Nonviolent Communication to help readers listen more carefully and express themselves clearly. I recommend this for anyone navigating difficult conversations at home or work. The exercises offer practical ways to understand what matters to each person and communicate with greater care.

The Trauma-Sensitive Classroom

Patricia A. Jennings connects an understanding of trauma with everyday teaching practices. This book gives educators practical ways to create supportive learning environments and respond to students with greater awareness. I recommend it for teachers and school teams looking to bring trauma-informed ideas into their classrooms.

Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?

Beverly Daniel Tatum explores racial identity and the conversations about race that people often struggle to have. I recommend this for educators, parents, and organizational leaders who want to better understand belonging and approach discussions about racism with greater knowledge, honesty, and confidence.

Fostering Resilient Learners

Kristin Souers and Pete Hall offer practical strategies for supporting students affected by trauma while attending to educators’ needs. I draw on examples from this book in my trainings. It is a useful choice for school teams working on relationships, adult regulation, and more supportive responses to behavior.

Pushout: The Criminalization of Black Girls in Schools

Monique W. Morris, now Monique Couvson, examines how bias and school practices can exclude and criminalize Black girls. I recommend this for educators, counselors, and youth-serving organizations reviewing their approaches to discipline and student support. It is a strong choice for a staff book study focused on equity.

Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness

David A. Treleaven explains how mindfulness practices can affect people with trauma histories and how to adapt them with greater care. I recommend this for educators, clinicians, and facilitators who lead mindfulness activities and want to provide more choice and respond thoughtfully to participants’ needs.

The Whole-Brain Child

Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson translate ideas about children’s brain development into practical strategies for everyday interactions. I recommend this for parents, caregivers, and educators who want to better understand big emotions and help children develop skills for navigating feelings and relationships.